TU’APULELULU ME 7, 2026
1 KALONIKALI 28-29; PALOVEPI 15:22
Your life is always shaped by the counsel you seek, listen to, and follow.
Ko ho’o mo’ui ‘oku uesia pe tokonia ‘e he fale’i ‘oku ke kumi ki ai, fanongo ki ai mo muimui ki ai.
God creates people with the need for counsel. Immediately after creating Adam and Eve, God begins to talk to them. He does this because he knows that they need truth, which they will never discover on their own, in order to make proper sense of who they are and what they have been created to do. God has never stopped counseling his people. This is why he has given us his word, so that we would know him, ourselves, the nature of the world we live in, and how we are meant to live. We are meant to live under the guidance and counsel of the Counselor of counselors, as he speaks to us in his word.
Everyone is being counseled by someone all the time. You may be counseled by your parents, a friend, or a mentor. In fact, you can't really have a relationship without the give-and-take of counseling. Perhaps you are being counseled by Twitter, Instagram, and TikTok, and you don't even know what a huge shaping influence they are having on your life. The counsel that we hear, that captures our hearts and minds, and that we allow to shape our identity, meaning, and purpose is very important.
So I have a question for you. If you were about to die and your son were about to succeed you in the work you had given your life to, what would be your final words of counsel to him? What identity would you want to instill? What confidence would you like to give? What success would you like him to seek? What hope would you like to impart? First Chronicles 28:9-10 preserves for us David's final words of counsel to his son Solomon: "Know the God of your father and serve him with a whole heart and with a willing mind, for the LORD searches all hearts and understands every plan and thought. If you seek him, he will be found by you, but if you forsake him, he will cast you off forever. Be careful now, for the LORD has chosen you to build a house for the sanctuary; be strong and do it." There may be no better words of counsel in all of Scripture.
Here are the four life-shaping things that David wants Solomon to know and allow to shape his life:
1. Serve God with a whole heart and willing mind. Give your heart to the Lord, which will then shape everything you do.
2. The Lord searches hearts and knows every thought and plan. You will
never fool the Lord. He knows your heart better than you do.
3. If you seek him, you will find him. The Lord is gracious, tenderhearted,
loving, and kind, and he will never hide from those who seek him.
4. Be strong and do what the Lord has chosen for you to do. Don't let
anything inside of you or outside of you keep you from doing what God has
called you to do.
I can't think of better advice than this. Keep God central in all you think, desire, and do. Remember that he knows your heart, and don't let anything keep you from serving him. May God give each one of us the grace to follow these wise words of counsel. And may our lives be a hymn to the glory of our Lord as we do.