MONITE SUNE 22, 2026
SAAME 78-79; TEUTALONOME 6:4-9
More important than children's education, socialization, or physical development is the nurture of their souls. May their hearts be captured by the things of God.
Mahu’inga ange ‘i he ako faka’atamai ‘a e fanau, mo honau tu’unga fakasosiale mo ‘enau fakalakalaka fakasino, ka ko e fafanga mo e tutupu honau laumalie. ‘Ofa ke puke ‘e honau loto ‘e he ngaahi me’a ‘a e ‘Otua.
When our children were small, they asked probing questions based on their keen observations. Luella and I knew we were parenting thinkers. If you are a parent or caregiver of little ones, it is vital to understand that these little theologians, philosophers, and archeologists will dig through the mountain of their experiences in order to make some kind of sense out of life. Sometimes we accuse our children of not thinking, but, in truth, they never stop thinking. Our children are meaning makers. They will develop ways of thinking about their identity, about what is important in life, about what is right or
wrong, and about relationships. And the sense that they make out of life will then determine how they live. Every day our children are observing, learning, interpreting, connecting, concluding, associating, and developing a view of life that will guide every word they say, every action they take, and every decision they make.
Because this is true, it is important for parents to start early and work often to instill in their children a view of life that has God in the center and on the throne. It is important that your children begin to understand that everything comes from the Lord, exists through him, and was made for him and his glory (see Rom. 11:36). Parents, hear the instructions of Psalm 78:5-8:
[God] established a testimony in Jacob
and appointed a law in Israel,
which he commanded our fathers
to teach to their children,
that the next generation might know them,
the children yet unborn,
and arise and tell them to their children.
so that they should set their hope in God
and not forget the works of God.
but keep his commandments;
and that they should not be like their fathers,
a stubborn and rebellious generation.
a generation whose heart was not steadfast.
whose spirit was not faithful to God.
Don't miss the vision here. We are called to faithfully teach our children the things of the Lord so that their children, yet unborn, will set their hope on God, remember his commands, and not rebel against him.
You may be thinking, "It's all we can do to keep our kids under control and put three meals on the table." But remember this: every one of God's commands is accompanied by his grace. He will meet you in your weariness and weakness and help you to do what he's called you to do. Someone will answer your children's questions. Some system of thought will capture their hearts and minds. May God use you, parent, to lead them to the one who is wisdom, so that they follow him, and their children and their children's children do as well.